It was quite disappointing. I could sense frustration and even a bit of hurt in his voice.He had gone beyond expectations to connect, perform and lead on an important long-term project.
They were gathered at a leadership strategy offsite to face a very difficult challenge. They wanted to define, clarify and pursue their purpose as leaders.
In a recent coaching session we were discussing her leadership and discovered an area in which she wanted to improve. As we talked, she displayed an engaging openness to listen and to learn.
We were hot, tired and on a bus. One of those double decker buses where you hop on and hop off to see the sights. I was in no mood for a tour or sight seeing.
I'll admit that it is my pet peeve. But the difference was so obvious. We arrived at a B & B after an intense week of work and long day of travel and were ready for a little down time.
She paused by our retaining wall as I was slowly passing by. That's when I saw it. Something long (about 5 feet), round and black came off of the wall toward my wife.
We all would like to think that we are the leader who puts others first and who cares about her team. However, the truth of our character comes out in times of crises…
Once again I am reminded that leadership is a verb. It begins with a sincere care for others. It is most powerful when driven by inspiration and not obligation.
Instead of making this moment about him he chose to make it about them. This is what he told them: "When I look in the mirror I will see each of you. I am merely a reflection of you. You are my mirror."
If you happened to sign in to our first Webinar you heard me talking about Leading Above The Line. I was talking to a hidden camera on my computer screen.